More than just clothes

Looking good goes hand in hand with feelings good or inside out. One can not exsist without the other. Many time we use our expression of self through dress or other means and still we are yearning for more. Tall enough, nice enough, good enough etc...Striving for perfection is not a bad thing to follow but are you being true to your self. Reality check is first and foremost. Embrace who you are and from there comes change there is an old saying... After me everyone else comes first, but you must embrace you and love you...I give this advice for I from time to time forget and need to be reminded....

It had been a while since I have talked about proper dressing and I must sayI am sorry. Dressing correctly is not just about dressing but acting as well. We must always ask this question. How do I want to be seen. What is the message I Am trying to convey and how am I doing this. Demeanor is as important as a good suit,jeans, dress, shoes etc.

How do you speak in public, are your words clear and concise...to the point. 

We must be who we are and in that our dress as well as carriage should reflect this.

Dressing Correctly is more than just clothes

To understand the artistry of clothing one must look at its history from designers to periods etc. Clothes are a direct representation of societies trials, and tribulations. If you pay close enough attention you can see what is going on in the world by looking at clothes. Now we are going thru a true period of influx. We are in chaos and trying to find a pathway to uniformity. The old guard is dying off and the new guard is trying to find its place.

Who are you trying to convey

The game of attraction ahhh we all play it and choose our partners accordingly. being communal we identify with certain groups and emulate  them so that we are accepted and thus find ourselves in the pecking order as it were. Then there is evolution we must evolve so that we survive The ever changing social order that has its own form of Darwinism so how do we do this well good question. You see we do not want to be our parents and with technology at our forefront we want to have a look that embraces our ideals and yet expresses our generation has matured.
Cubicles have come down social interaction is incouraged and then comes mating, dating. We want to attract a partner for it is time for nesting or preparing to do so well you gotta look mature, together, and mate material.
Tech companies are having to employ dress policies for proper representation and over all projection of proper image. Tesla has done an amazing job of this for their look is clean current and truly represents the modern tech generation. Keep your eyes on Tesla for Elon Musk is a visionary.

Food for thought

We all love beautiful things but do not want to pay high prices and feel that it is vulgar to buy imitations. Well there are several solutions Ebay, The Real Real, Outlet stores., great on line shopping sites. The possibilities are endless and yes where do I find the time to do this.,, hire a personal shopper who is savvy and quick. Do not hire some ego driven dimwit who insults your intelligence with name spewing and blah,blah blah not get someone who wants to help and is sincere... They are out there and I know a few one I particular is me Dh2 designs.

Honesty is the best policy

I do not care where you shop or with whom, remember it is your dollar and you are going to have to wear as well as pay for these items. Get yourself a salesperson or personal stylist that is honest with you. Granted we love compliments and such but a fluffy ego when the dust settles can be damaged by the insult that is left with absurdly rediculous clothes that say nothing about besides the fact that you were gullible..
Demand respect but to do so go in with intent and ask questions do not settle. Case and point the bohemian look is in but may say nothing about you so you might add a fringe accessory etc.. Know who you are and or if you want a change employ someone or a great friend that will tell you the truth.

Hey got some great tips

In this ever changing market we are being bombarded with choices, choices, and oh more choices so what do I chose well for you guys I have some ideas clothing that is well made won't break the bank and embraces true male rebel style that can be customized  bringing out your personality  Klein, Epstein , and Parker beautiful pieces that express your personal style without breaking the bank.
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Remember Gents looking good is your best revenge..and you do not have to break the bank to do so.